Retired USMC LtGen George Flynn has a test for leaders and it’s insanely
“If they ask you how you’re doing they actually care about the
How many people above you have asked how you were and not cared a whiff? How
many haven’t even asked how you were doing? In my experience, it’s most. And I
think that’s why we’re so passionate about the leaders we’ve had in our lives
that have truly cared about the answer to that question.
In another quote, LtGen Flynn says “The cost of leadership is
self-interest.” I don’t think you cease to have self-interest, but you check
it at the door when thinking about the well-being of your people.
Who was the last person you asked about their day? Did you care?